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Yesterday morning we received a phone call from one of our grooms who had been married just the week before.
Yesterday morning we received a phone call from one of our grooms who had been married just the week before.
I remembered Bill instantly, he and Trisha had been so "extra" appreciative of us and the little weddings we do on the beach in Coronado. They were one of those couples that we absolutely love to work with. I recall, as we are walking off the beach, saying how lucky we are to have such a great job and
incredible couples who "get" what we do.
incredible couples who "get" what we do.
It was funny, because Bill and Trisha said we "practically provide a community service" ... a fun, beautiful, affordable, quick wedding option! We never really thought of it that way. They had both been married previously and knew first hand how weddings spiral out of control, and huge amounts of
money that can be spent for an evening of fun.
money that can be spent for an evening of fun.
Bill, the groom called me yesterday morning to tell me his beautiful bride of only a few days passed away very suddenly, from a brain clot. Over. Done.
He was overwhelmed with grief.
He was overwhelmed with grief.
Before he hung up the phone, he said he was sad because she didn't get to see her wedding photos, and relive the great time that day. Then he said....
that is all he has left to remember that happy day with her.
that is all he has left to remember that happy day with her.
It
was a sobering moment, we went out the beach last night and had
several weddings in the same spot. As I Iooked out
to sea,
I couldn't help but think of how sad this was, but I was also struck with how
important our work is.
We both took a moment to reflect on how much we mean to each other, and how many lives we touch. As trite as it sounds, we were reminded of how fleeting life can be. . .
bill and trisha |